Thursday, April 22, 2010

Annual

Just another year to get my annual Mammogram and Ultrasound. Hopefully another year of getting an all clear. These are the things on my mind as I went to my appointment today. Since 1991 I have been going to the same place to get my mammograms and ultrasounds. The Breast Center of Indianapolis. (But for the last 2 years, it is called, Solis Women Health)
For 13 years straight I went twice a year for these reasons. For the past 6 years I have only had to go once per year. (Thank God)

My mother went there, which for the most is why I chose to go here. Well "Chose" is a bad word. I didn't really have much of a choice, as when I got my first mammogram in 1991, per the insistence of my mother, it came back questionable with a big ole Q, so she insisted I go to where she had been going for at least 15 years. I went and have been going since. A lot has changed since I was first there, mostly I believe to a change in ownership or management. The best doctor they had there left, but I was happy still with the ones I saw in recent years there. I was happy with the way I was treated from the time I checked in, to the time I checked out. I have never had a harsh word spoken to me, I was treated with the respect I feel the doctors, nurses, and techs there deserve. I have heard of how women dread going to get these particular tests for the pain. I have never even with the amounts of fibroid cysts I have, experienced any of the pain I have heard of.

Until today.

I got the most rude, rough lady tech ever. What can usually take 45 minutes, took her all of 10 to get my films done. She pulled, tugged, shoved me into places I had never been pulled or shoved into before. I even slightly moved my shoulder back once to get my bearings, only to hear how I had with that one move messed up her up completely so for her to have to start all over again....and she was not happy to start again. (She told me)

I tried to be nice, and funny by saying how even though I have been doing this for 19 years, every year, I seem to forget how to contort my upper body the way they like, so to fit into the machine for a good picture. I was told, it was her job security to have women like me forget. Now I know that for some of these Techs it is probably as awkward for them as it is for us getting the mammogram, and if you are a larger woman with larger breasts maybe it is harder for them to get it just right. But I am not much larger now than when I started going, and I have never been as hurt physically as I was today.

If that was all, the ultrasound which is usually not painful probably to anyone, was equally painful today. What normally takes at least 30 minutes sometimes even more (remember I have done this faithfully at the same place for 19 years), the ultrasound took less than 20. But it was a rough 20 minutes, not only for my boobies, but having to hear this woman sigh at least 4 times during, as if I was ruining HER day.

During the ten minutes of the mammogram, I was also told how having my hair up in a ponytail was not a good look for women of my age.....when she then pointed out how she was not much older than me.
WHO CARES? What the heck? I mean you are beating the crap outta me from my boobs up, and you have the nerve during this time to tell me my hair style is not a good look for me? I already know this, but don't really care to hear it from you at this point. Geez.

I then asked this woman whose name I unfortunately didn't get, how long she had been there as I have NEVER seen her, NEVER gotten her as my tech and HOPED to NEVER see her again, as if I did, I was sure to RUN, not walk the other way. She said she had been there 21 years. I didn't hardly believe that. I loved this place. I think they were very respectful of my mother, treated her well. I have been treated the same also. I have recommended this place for 19 years. I will NEVER recommend it again. I wonder if anyone who reads this can give me advice on whether to make a call or write a letter to this place and report this woman? Not just for the pain she inflicted on me but some of the rude remarks. Or is this normal for me to have the pain this time, maybe I have just been lucky for 19 years? I would love any advice as, I also am really contemplating where I plan to go from here on out as I feel as though I have been beat to death today, I can hardly move my upper body. My armpits are sore, my arms are sore, my collar bone hurts as well as my neck and chest, I have a cut on my chest, and my boobies to say the least feel as though they are swollen, so big as I feel like they are up into my chin.

Seriously.


Of course the Shankster says "Well....they feel bigger? Hmm, that isn't such a bad thing..... is it?"



Geesh!!

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

New Light

Almost forgot that we also, put in a new light/fan in the bathroom. As there was an almost non existent light in there, and the fan was Kaput. Mom was constantly complaining about the light....or the fact that it was so bad. So Mom, again this is for you! It was almost worth the 4 hours it took us to install it. We can see in there now, the fan works and there is also a heater included in the fixture......Dad loved that...as he usually freezes in here. And for a room without heat, it is not bad...not bad at all.

Closet

Finally a new closet.

Well not so new as in NEW....but a re-done, cleaned up, cleared out closet. Finally! This actually took way more that either the Shankster or I had anticipated....but well worth the hassle in my mind. Mostly the Shankster's hassle, I might add, as he did most of the work.

What we thought was going to take all of about one day maybe two, took nearly five. B had came in and put up some shelves and re arranged the only closet here to try to accommodate holding 3 peoples clothing among other things you stick in a closet about 5 years back. It has taken me this long to figure out what the next step was going to be in there. Procrastination if my middle name....especially when I have to recruit a helper. Even though the changes B made were terrific, it was still in need of striping old paint, wallpaper, plugging up holes everywhere, then re-painting, and hopefully re carpeting. It was old, dusty, smelled musty and the light fixture in there was a total mess/hazard. (don't ask)
Luckily we found a remnant carpet for $20 which had padding attached. Padding! WoW, the only room in the house to have padding!





A cheap bucket of paint and luckily we already had some Kilz so we were gung ho to complete this job in record time.

Well as usual in this house, you can't do one thing without running into a dozen obstacles. Usually obstacles that will cost you and arm and a leg. Unfortunately we don't have any more arms and legs left so we were going in with what we had. What we thought was one layer of wallpaper, turned out to be 5, before we finally stopped scraping and tugging, ranting and raving. We had to come up with a new plan as, you cannot or at least we couldn't paint over more than 40 year old wallpaper.......trust me it just doesn't work.

When we were cleaning out the closet we came across some rolls of wallpaper. I remember them. I had tried to sell them in a yard sale and my mom just begged me to not sell them and give them to her so she could put up somewhere in this house. I cannot even remember how long ago that was. I have been here, now going on my seventh year and I believe our last yard sale together was around 96. Obviously the poor woman never got the wallpaper up. So when the Shankster asked if we could use the wallpaper, my only thought was gee... does wallpaper go bad? I was a little bit scared.








But it worked. We wallpapered what we could not paint. The Shankster put in a new light fixture as the previous light has been on non stop for I know the last 7 years and probably for 30 before that. (Again,Don't ask) We put in the carpet and put everything back in. I reluctantly donated at least half of my clothes and some other items I had in there, mostly for room. But I can say I don't mind at all going into the closet anymore. Its clean, smells clean. Not musty, dusty
anymore.






And you can turn the light on and off just like regular people do.

WOW. I love it.

Friday, April 09, 2010

Oops!

Correction......The Shankster said it's the 4th day!



He should know, he has done the most...thank goodness.

3rd Day in Closet....

Nuff said?

:)

Wednesday, April 07, 2010

Tackling The Closet...

Or should I say The Shankster is tackling the closet? I am on a break.

:)